Often, shortly after marriage, the feeling sets in that it's best to wish we had clarified these issues earlier. This leads to increased tension, misunderstandings, and conflicts in the relationship.

Marriage is one of life's biggest and most important decisions. It's not just a relationship between two people, but the coming together of two thoughts, two families, and two different lives. Often, people get so caught up in wedding preparations that they forget to focus on the foundation of their relationship. Amidst the beautiful dresses, grand parties, and rituals, many important things go unsaid, which can lead to problems later on.

Often, shortly after marriage, we begin to realize that we wish we had clarified these issues earlier. This can lead to increased tension, misunderstandings, and conflict in the relationship. Therefore, whether it's a love marriage or an arranged marriage, it's crucial to communicate openly with each other before marriage. Clear communication, especially regarding matters like financial situation, future plans, family expectations, career, children, and lifestyle, ensures stability and understanding in the relationship after marriage. 

If you are going to get married, then definitely check these things.

1. Do you have similar life goals? Before marriage, it's crucial to understand what you both want in life. Do you prioritize your careers? Do you share similar visions about having children? Where do you want to live in the future? In your hometown or elsewhere. If you and your partner have very different dreams and goals, compromises can be difficult later on. 

2. Respect each other's opinions - A healthy relationship is one where both partners respect each other's feelings, thoughts, and decisions. If someone's opinions are being ignored or their independence is being questioned even before marriage, this could be a warning sign. 

3. Regarding salary and expenses - Most couples are working these days. Therefore, it's important to know your and your partner's income, monthly expenses, and savings habits. Exaggerating your salary or concealing expenses undermines trust right from the beginning of a relationship. 

4. The Truth About Loans and Debts - If you have an education loan, personal loan, or home loan, it's important to clearly disclose it before marriage. The EMI may seem small, but meeting it every month isn't easy. It's also important to know if your family has any major debts. How will you manage the new financial responsibilities after marriage? 

5. Regarding financial transactions and assistance - After marriage, you may often need to provide financial assistance to relatives or family members. If it's not decided in advance whether to provide such assistance and to what extent, it could lead to conflict later. 

6. Regarding personal savings - Trust is essential, but it's not necessary to disclose everything immediately. Your personal savings and future planning can be your own. As your relationship strengthens, these matters can be discussed. It's important that both understand that each person will have control over their personal savings and that accounting for every penny isn't mandatory. 

7. Health information – If someone has a chronic illness or special health needs, it is better to disclose it in advance rather than hiding it.

8. Lifestyle – eating habits, traveling, social life, and daily routine. If there are significant differences in these aspects, adjustment may be difficult later on.