Before marriage, there may be a difference between your upbringing, family environment, rituals, and customs. In such a situation, it is natural to have some differences and occasional conflicts after marriage. There is often a lack of harmony or estrangement on any other matter between the newlyweds. Sometimes it reaches more than difference of opinion. When two people who have been brought up in different mental levels, sanskaras and families meet, mutual infection of sanskaras takes place. The new couple is not able to accept this Sankranti i.e. change and first differences and then conflicts start. If acceptance is increased by exercising a little restraint, then these differences can be prevented from turning into conflicts or disputes, with the help of some tricks, you can prevent the shadow of differences from falling on your relationship.
In marriages, people often say that this does not happen in our country. But when two families meet, they also join each other's customs. In such a situation, try to understand mutual customs. Talk to each other about it. With this, you will get an idea of the problems that may arise in the future and you will be able to deal with them. When it comes to adopting a new tradition, there will be no problem in accepting it if understood.
Newlyweds should have only one priority – living life together. If you say something about this, then listen to others. Whether the marriage is in two different castes or the same caste, everyone's lifestyle is different with the country, time, and situation. The rites and rituals also change according to the caste and somewhere according to the region. In such a situation, by setting the priority of life, the possibility of opposition or estrangement will be greatly reduced.
Learning opportunity
Everyone has their lifestyle before marriage. After marriage a new family is formed, and new responsibilities come. That's why don't expect sudden change from your partner. Understand him with patience and allow him to learn and understand the new family, people's behavior, customs, and traditions. Make her feel that you care about her. This will increase love and your partner will also like your shortcomings.
If the partner is from a different culture or tradition, some compromises will have to be made from the very beginning to reconcile. Talk openly with your partner with decency on those subjects, which you feel can create estrangement between the two. All problems can be solved through dialogue. Through communication, you and your partner will be able to know each other better.
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