When couples are staying away from each other for a long time, their relationship has soured. At such a time, planning a baby to save the marriage can be a wrong decision. They should first give 1 to 2 years to their relationship. In many cases, the relationship has been seen breaking even after conceiving a pregnancy.  

In Sanatan Dharma, marriage is considered a bond of 7 births. In today's time, some people's marriages are not able to last even 7 years, let alone 7 births. Many times, despite not wanting it, the couple's marriage goes on such a path where the relationship seems to be breaking. At the same time, the family members do everything to save the marriage. Often you must have heard or seen around you that for a breaking marriage, family members ask to plan a baby. They believe that the arrival of a child can save the marriage from breaking. But planning a baby is not successful in saving every breaking marriage. In this article, we will tell you how baby planning to save the marriage has proved to be a wrong decision for some women. Seema (name changed) has shared her experience with us. 

The story of the border

Everyone can have different opinions and experiences on this decision. But Seema (name changed), a resident of Noida, shares her experience. She tells how this decision was very bad for her. Because of this, the relationship became more tense instead of getting better. Seema told that everything was good for 3 to 4 months after marriage. After that her in-laws started interfering. Initially Seema did not say anything, then with time things got worse.

During this time, Seema's husband did not support her. Seema used to do office and household work alone. In such a situation, there were frequent fights between Seema and her husband over small things. Things escalated with time. After about 1 year of marriage, their relationship soured. Seema started living in her parents' house. Seema did not want to stay in this marriage. Seema's family advised her to expand the family to save the marriage.

Seema talked to her husband and started a new beginning in their relationship... Seema conceived and after this she thought that her relationship would be saved, but it did not happen. Seema's delivery took place at her parents' house. Seema gave birth to a son. There was no improvement in their relationship after the birth of the son. Today Seema is taking care of her son alone. Seema says that planning a baby to save the marriage was the worst decision of her life. 

Why planning a baby to save a breaking marriage can be a wrong decision 

1. Putting a new life at stake 

Planning a baby to save a broken marriage can be a wrong decision. This puts the life of the child at stake. The child does not get the love of the parents in life. Most children live with their mother. 

2. Responsibility of raising a child

It is very difficult for a single mother to raise a child. Both parents are needed for the good upbringing of a child. 

3. Mental health of the child 

It is not good for any child to see the breakdown of their parents' marriage since childhood. It affects their mental development. 

4. Worries about money 

In some cases, it takes many years for the marriage to break, in such cases, the woman often does not get money from her husband. In such a situation, the woman has the responsibility of the house and the children. In such a situation, it is very difficult for the woman to plan expenses and save. 

5. Parental love 

Planning a baby to save a falling apart marriage can be a big risk. In some cases, it has been seen that the marriage does not last even after planning a baby. In such a case, the child does not get the love of both the parents together.