We always want to know what is going on in the heart of the other person. Many methods are also told on social media. After adopting them, when the results do not come as per the wish, then the mind becomes sad and misunderstandings start in the relationship.
Social media has made your life easy to a great extent. You have also become addicted to it. As new technology is developing, it is also entertaining you. You tell me, how busy are you on social media throughout the day?
Nowadays many women cannot even sleep without watching reels on social media. Whatever is shown in the reels, they blindly accept it as true. Something or the other keeps going on on these reels and social media every day, one of which is - the 'Relationship Test'. Sometimes the bird test, the 'name a woman' or 'husband test' go viral, which we try for fun. But sometimes these tests also give a wrong meaning to relationships.
Even if you are told many parameters to measure love in your relationship on many platforms including social media, but never take them to heart. These can spoil your relationship or reduce the sweetness of the relationship. The results of the test don't need to be as per your wish! And when these results do not come in your favor, they hollow you from the inside. Misunderstandings start happening between both of you. Due to this, your relationship starts falling apart sooner or later.
Increasing trend of tests
The most negative effect of social media is on your relationships. You must have read and heard this thing in many places, but you must have never tried to know it. These days strange relationship tests are prevalent on social media. Popular relationship tests among these are the image tests, orange peel tests, ketchup test, etc. Apart from this, people hear about tarot card reading, oracle card reading, angel numbers, candle wax reading, room reading, number selection, etc. for relationships on social media.
The amazing thing is that these relationship tests and readings are the same for everyone. In such a situation, how wise would it be to believe in them? If you are educated, and intelligent, and understand everything good and bad, then why do you spoil your relationships by getting entangled in these tests or readings?
It is also dangerous
Social media is social only in name. Never compare it with real relationships. A huge world of happiness, sadness, anger, insult, and disappointment is also created within social media. Whatever you see there, it starts showing you the same. If you are sad, then it shows you only sad content, which makes you feel connected. Due to this, you also become negative.
Moving with time and changing is certainly a sign of intelligence, but due to its increasing illusions and getting entangled in the web of attachment, the possibility of damage to the norms of our culture, family, social prestige, and moral values cannot be denied. In such a situation, no kind of game or test can tell the depth of your love. Only you know and your partner knows how important he is to you or how important you are to him.
Vigilance is necessary
Social media has become a part of most people's lives today. If you find out from this test that your relationship needs some work, then do not hesitate to ask for help and try to improve the relationship. Many times, as soon as you get a negative result, you start fighting with your partner. That's where the cracks in the relationship start appearing, whereas if you look at the positive side of this relationship test, then it also comes forward as a counselor in your relationship and tells you what you need to improve in your relationship as a couple. So do not fight with them. It is better to talk to them rather than take the test seriously. If there is any problem, then find a solution together.
Difference between dedication and test
Your relationship is for a few months, a year, two years, or many years. In such a situation, no test can tell how deep the roots of the relationship are. If you try these tests on your own, then be prepared for both positive and negative results. Whatever the result, it should not affect your relationship. At the same time, as much as possible, do not get involved in these useless tests and readings. Remember that what is yours will remain yours. The most important thing in a healthy relationship is to maintain communication, mutual respect, and love. Remember, you do not need any relationship test to express your love. All you need is to have a sense of dedication to make the relationship flourish.
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