Raising a child is a very big and serious responsibility for parents. The future of the child depends on the way of parenting. For the good health of the child, parents pay attention to their diet and good lifestyle, while on the other hand, to make them self-reliant in future, they also consider good education of the child as important. However, good health and education alone are not essential for a child's future. Most important is the mental health of the child. To keep the child's mood healthy, parents need to keep them in a healthy environment along with giving them good manners. Children's mind is very pure. They see they learn right there. In such a situation, sometimes some words of the parents leave a deep impact on the mind of the children. That's why every parent should never say certain things in front of their child during child-rearing. Come let's know which five words parents should never say to a child.
Fat
Never say negative words about your child's body. Don't call the child fat, this leads to body shaming and an inferiority complex about their looks. Apart from this, do not use any words that bring negativity in the child about his looks, such as ugly, black, ugly, etc., and avoid speaking words.
Idiot
Often parents express displeasure over any action of the child and call him a fool or an idiot etc. Such words can lower self-esteem and confidence in children. The child starts thinking of himself as a fool after hearing these words from the mouth of the parents and is afraid to try new things.
Useless
If you speak such words in front of your child, which prove him unfit, then this also lowers the morale of the child. Do not make the child feel unworthy and unimportant by saying that he is useless, useless, etc.
Shut up
The child shares all his heart's feelings with his parents. But many times the parents start getting irritated by his words and ask him to keep quiet. By speaking this word in front of the child, he starts suppressing his opinion or feelings and does not share things with the parents.
Hate
A word like hate is very big and serious. Never use the word hate in front of the child. Teach the child about love, kindness, and empathy. If you use a word like hate in front of him, it has a deep impact on his life. He begins to feel this feeling.
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