Two people come into a relationship when there is love, liking, or respect between them. When you feel attachment and love towards your partner, you join a relationship with them. Like to spend time with each other. However, many times the relationship formed due to love starts deteriorating and comes to the verge of breaking.
Often lovers start hating each other and do not want to see each other's faces. What is the reason that later you start hating the person you love? Do not want to spend time with them and ultimately the matter reaches to breakup or divorce. Let us know about those mistakes due to which love turns into hatred. By avoiding making such mistakes, you can always maintain love in your relationship.
Misunderstandings
There are some misunderstandings, which if not cleared with the partner for a long time can lead to hatred in the relationship. These misunderstandings turn into big mistakes in relationships.
Lack of communication
Many times couples are busy due to work. Their busyness may cause distance from their partner. Due to too much busyness, couples are unable to give time to each other or there is a lack of communication between them. You are not able to talk to your partner when you are busy with office work. The partner starts feeling that you are moving away from them. He wants to express his feelings to you but due to your busyness, he starts feeling lonely. This misunderstanding becomes the cause of distance and hatred between the two.
Understand your feelings without saying anything
Couples who are in love hope that their partner will understand their feelings without saying anything. However, when the partner is unable to understand your expectations and needs without saying anything, then the partner starts feeling unhappy. When his hopes are broken, he starts moving away from you. However, do not expect that your partner will understand you without you speaking. He expressed his feelings openly.
Guessing about your partner's intentions
Many couples make their guesses to understand their partner's thoughts or thinking. What we think, what is its purpose, only we know. But when your partner starts misjudging your thoughts and ideas, disputes start arising in the relationship.
Take decisions alone
Often people in relationships assume that whatever decision they take, their partner will also agree to it. The thought of making decisions alone without knowing the wishes of the partner can bring tension to the relationship. It is a wrong attitude to assume that your partner will agree to your decision. This kind of behavior puts pressure on your partner, it may be that his/her views are different, or your taking decisions alone every time may upset him/her.
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