Family is connected with many relationships. Family plays an important role in the life of every person living in the society. International Family Day is celebrated every year on 15 May to celebrate the importance of family. In a country like India, respect for relationships and family is paramount. In India, each family has 10 members. However, with time, the trend of joint families started ending in India and people started moving towards nuclear families by adopting Western culture. One reason for this is mutual discord among family members.
There is a famous saying in the family conversation, 'Where there are four utensils, they are bound to rattle.' When this conflict increases, relationships and families start breaking down. If you want to maintain love and affection in your family, then first of all know what are the five common reasons for rift in the family, so that it becomes easier to remove them and keep the relationship strong.
Economic stress
Although a family is united, money can become a cause of discord among the family. When people's income is so low that it cannot meet the needs of family members, differences and fights start increasing in the family.
Social stress
When you live in a large or joint family, the family runs on the income of many members, but if the income of one person is less than that of all the members of the family, then he is considered less. Due to not getting equal status and respect, he feels inequality in the family. At the same time, even those who earn more may feel cheated. In such a situation, the possibility of mutual disputes between them increases.
Mental pressure
The pressure of taking care of the comforts of all the family members, trying to be on par with other members, and any kind of problem in the office, etc. affects the person mentally. Due to the increase in stress and anxiety, the person starts getting irritated about small things and starts expressing his displeasure with the family members in excitement and anger.
Invasion of privacy
Even though you are a family and live together, every person has his own life. There should be some space or privacy between them. Too much interference in privacy or being together all the time increases conflicts among the members. An example of this was seen during the Corona period.
Dispute of rights
Often the head of the household has the right to make decisions in the family. In joint families, even the adult members of the second and third generations depend on the elders for their decisions. In such a situation, there is a possibility of disputes with elders regarding their decisions. At the same time, when all the members of the family do not get equal rights, discord starts to arise. Therefore, all members of the family should be treated equally and their decisions should be given importance.
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