In the office or college, work and studies are the primary goals. Therefore, before proposing, it's important to understand whether the other person shares the same feelings.

As Valentine's Day approaches, young people become increasingly excited about proposing. Especially in professional settings like offices and colleges, there's a lot of confusion about whether proposing is appropriate, how safe it is, and how to handle the situation if the other person says no. Many people say that before proposing, it's crucial to understand the environment, the other person's thinking, and your own limitations. So, let's explore how safe it is to propose in the office or college, and how you can save your relationship if your proposal is rejected.

How safe is it to propose in the office or college?

In an office or college, work and studies are the primary objectives. Therefore, before proposing, it's crucial to understand whether the other person shares similar feelings. In the office, it's especially important to review the company's office relationship policy. Many companies have clear rules regarding relationships between co-workers; ignoring these rules can even jeopardize your job. While the college environment is more open, a hasty proposal can often lead to misunderstandings. Furthermore, in recent years, after incidents like the #MeToo movement, such actions have become even more sensitive, especially in the office. Therefore, many experts advise that before proposing, it's important to understand the other person's body language, conversation, and comfort level.

Haste can become a problem.

Many people, under the pressure of Valentine's Day or Proposal Day, express their feelings without thinking, but if the other person isn't ready, they may face rejection. In an office or college environment, this rejection can impact not only the relationship but also the professional or academic environment.

What to do if the proposal is rejected

Accept the no with respect

If the other person refuses your proposal, the first step is to respect their decision. Asking questions forcefully or trying to prove yourself right can only damage the relationship.

Don't do anything wrong in anger.

It's normal to feel angry after a proposal rejection. However, many things said in anger can lead to future regrets. In such a situation, it's best to remain calm and end the conversation.

Don't show off your breakup on social media.

Many times, after being rejected, people post emotional posts to mutual friends or on social media. This could further distance your partner from you. This could also affect your image, so avoid showing off on social media.

Distance made from drunk dial

Calling or messaging emotionally after a breakup or rejection often worsens the situation. In such a situation, only talk if the other person wants to contact you.