Gen Z Shrekking Dating Trends: Ugly, not looks, is now the trending dating trend. Shrekking is gaining popularity among Gen Z!
- bySherya
- 05 May, 2026
Gen Z Shrekking Dating Trends: A new trend has emerged among Gen Z, which people are jokingly but seriously calling Shrekking.
Today's dating world is no longer the same as it used to be. While choosing a partner, people used to first look at their looks, how handsome they were, how beautiful they were, how they looked on social media, but now this thinking is slowly changing. Especially among Gen Z, a new trend has emerged, which people are jokingly but seriously calling Shrekking. This trend means deliberately dating someone who is not traditionally considered very attractive, in the hope that they will be more loyal and emotionally available. This is not just a funny internet trend, but also reflects the fatigue and frustration of today's dating culture.
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Shrekking simply means dating someone who is average or less attractive but has a good personality. People tend to think that less-than-beautiful people put in more effort in relationships because they don't have many options. This thinking may seem a bit strange, but many people's experiences prove it to be true.
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On social media, especially TikTok, some users shared their experiences of less attractive partners being nicer. This sentiment quickly spread, and people dubbed it Shrekking, a name derived from the fictional character Shrek, who is unusual in appearance but pure and genuine at heart.
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Gen Z has experienced many ups and downs in dating, such as situationships, ghosting, and emotionally unavailable people. Frustrated by these issues, people are now placing more importance on inner qualities than external beauty. For them, the question now is whether this person will make time for me, not how good-looking they are.
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This trend isn't entirely positive. Sometimes, people act out of fear. They fear that a very attractive partner might leave them, so they choose someone who won't.
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This isn't entirely accurate. Appearances don't determine goodness or badness. Anyone, whether beautiful or not, can be a good or bad partner. This trend of judging someone based solely on their looks shouldn't be pervasive.
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The real change is that people have now started understanding that love does not just depend on appearances, trust, respect, and giving time are more important.






