Falling in love or a relationship is the most beautiful moment of any person's life. When you love someone, you start dreaming of spending your whole life with him/her. But sometimes even after giving time and importance to the relationship, things do not work out the way it was thought. There can be many reasons for this, such as circumstances or the partner's seriousness towards the relationship.
Some relationships get better with time, while sometimes the relationship starts reaching the verge of breaking day by day. If you suddenly come to know that your boyfriend wants to break up with you, then you can do this in this way. But, if you suspect in advance that your boyfriend wants to break up with you, then you can mentally prepare yourself for it. So let us tell you about some such signs that you get in such situations, which will help you understand whether your boyfriend is serious about you or not. That is, does he want to break up with you?
Quarrels over small things
It is normal for couples to quarrel over small things. You must have often seen your parents having sweet and sour arguments with each other. But, when these fights start increasing unnecessarily, the boyfriend starts insulting you without any issue, starts making big issues out of small things, and starts finding excuses to fight, then it can be harmful to the relationship. In such a situation, the couple should separate to avoid mental harassment.
Not giving importance
The person we love has the most importance in life. If you are in a relationship with a boy, but he does not give importance to you and he makes excuses and backs out of your plan. If he does not come even after being called many times and reaches without wasting time when someone else calls him, then it indicates that now his interest in you has decreased.
Lack of conversation
If your boyfriend wants to break up with you, then the first and initial step of it can be a lack of conversation. If the person who used to chat and talk for hours suddenly stops answering your calls or does not reply to your messages, then he may be thinking of breaking up with you.
Maintaining distance
When someone is in a relationship with someone, they are mentally and physically connected to each other. Hugging each other, holding hands, feeling each other's touch, all this shows that you love each other. But, when your boyfriend starts avoiding sitting near you and does not understand your mental problems, then it shows that he wants to separate from you.
Starts finding faults
When you love someone, you accept him as he is. In simple words, you do not see the flaws of that person. But, if your boyfriend who was earlier in love with your words, and mannerisms, suddenly starts counting those habits as your flaws, then understand that his love for you has reduced or ended and now he wants to separate from you.
Hiding things or lying
When lies enter a relationship, its bond starts weakening. If your boyfriend does not share things like before, has started hiding things, or has started lying, then understand that he wants to break up with you.
Excuses for not spending time together
When you are in love with someone, you want to spend as much time as possible with him/her. But, if it becomes difficult to spend time with your partner and he/she starts avoiding being with you, then understand that he/she wants to stay away from you. If the boyfriend is trying to avoid spending quality time with you or going out or being with you, then he/she may want to break up with you.
Change in feelings
When a person loves someone, he/she takes care of every small and big thing of that person. What makes you happy or what can make you sad, the boyfriend takes care of all these things. But when your boyfriend stops being affected by your anger and sadness and his feelings for you start changing, then it shows that he wants to move forward in his life and wants to separate from you.
Respect for each other decreases.
Respect for each other is considered to be the foundation of any relationship. It is very important to have respect for each other in any relationship. It works the same way in the girlfriend-boyfriend relationship. But when your boyfriend stops respecting you or does not respect your decisions and work, and starts fighting over every little thing, then it means that he is now getting bored of you and wants freedom from this relationship.
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