When children are very young, then their mischief is liked. But when the same children grow up a bit, their same mischiefs make the parents angry. After becoming a parent, inevitably, you will often get angry or yell at your child. This behaviour of the parents has a deep impact on the child. Especially when the child is scolded in front of other people. Parents think that by shouting or scolding, the child will understand and stop making mistakes, whereas doing so has many bad effects on the child's mental health as well. Let us tell you what are those side effects and why you should not talk to children by shouting.
Loss of confidence
Every parent wants their child to be confident and smart. When the child is not able to talk properly or has difficulty playing with other children, it becomes a cause of concern for the parents. Yelling at children can affect their self-esteem. When parents talk to their child in a loud voice all the time, it makes the child feel inferior.
Baby looks for love outside
The child starts feeling that you do not love him and the child starts looking for love outside. Other people also show false love, so he feels that they love him very much. In this way, many times even the wrong people take advantage of the children.
Stress can increase
There can be many types of mental disorders in the child, one of which is feeling more stressed. Due to excessive stress, a change in the child's behaviour starts to appear. By scolding the children in front of others, they feel insulted, due to which they start hiding things from their parents. This can be a major reason for stress. The child gets so much scared of being scolded that he cannot express himself openly. He feels that he is going to be scolded, so he becomes silent. After this, your words do not affect him.
Child learns to lie
The worst effect of the habit of shouting at the child is that your child learns to lie to you. If you scold or scold the child all the time for his small things, then soon he will learn to hide things related to his personal life from you. Sometimes the side effects of this habit of the child can be serious.
Effect on physical health
Yelling at the child in front of others also affects the physical health of the child. Scolding the child by the parents can make him physically weak. Due to being physically weak, children start stealing eyes from others and feel emotionally and physically weak. Sometimes children also fall ill due to stress.
