Communication is very important in a relationship. Be it a loving couple or a husband-wife, everyone wants to spend time with their partner and wants to talk. However, couples who are far away from each other, i.e. in a long distance, find it difficult to spend time with each other. Communication between them is the only means that can help in strengthening the relationship. For communication, couples can call each other, make video calls, or send messages.
If couples are unable to talk to each other on the phone due to busyness or other reasons, then through some messages throughout the day, they can make their partner feel that they are not far from them. However, these messages sometimes also become the reason for disputes between the couple, because people do not know what kind of messages they should not send to their partner even by mistake.
Expressing emotions correctly can be difficult in a conversation done through messages, so keep in mind that if you are talking to your wife or partner through messages, then such messages should never be sent.
Replying in one word
Replying to your wife or partner's message in one word or just sending emojis can hurt their heart. If your wife is messaging repeatedly, it means that she is missing you or she wants to talk to you, but if you reply to her with emojis or in one word, then it means that you are busy and are not showing interest in talking to her. Even if you are busy, tell her this in clear words and ask her to talk after some time.
Replying in anger
While talking to your wife through messages, do not message in anger. This is not good for your relationship at all. Even though you say things in anger without thinking, your words can hurt your partner's heart. Due to this, there can be a rift in the relationship. Therefore, if you get angry, keep the phone away for some time and calm yourself down. Talk to your partner calmly and explain your feelings to them.
Continuous messaging
While messaging, it is not known what the partner's mood is. Many times husbands keep messaging their wives continuously, to which the partner is unable to reply. It may be that your husband is busy with some work, or his mood is not good or he is in a meeting in the office. In such a situation, if you keep messaging him when he replies late or does not reply to your messages, then this can also be like disturbing your wife. This can make your wife angry or irritated. Wait for her reply. Do not disturb her by messaging again and again and do not bother her. If you are worried, call and find out whether your wife is in any trouble or not.
Question-answer in messages
Resolve any important conversation on call or face-to-face. Do not have long conversations or question-answers with your wife through messages. Due to this, she may have trouble understanding your feelings and may get annoyed with your questions. Like repeatedly asking your wife what she is doing, when will she return home, whether did she a particular work or not, if not, then why not? Etc. She will like your concern more than the questions and answers.
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