Relationship Advice: In India, most women and men have different responsibilities. Women expect their husbands to help them with household chores. Often there are quarrels between husband and wife regarding household chores. There can be many reasons for not helping the wife with household chores. Men are unable to help their wives due to getting taunted for doing household chores, being busy with outside work, avoiding responsibilities, and not getting a chance to lend a hand. However, if the wife wants the husband to take care of the household along with her, help with the household chores along with taking care of the children, then here are some ways. Women should adopt these methods to get the help of their husbands.
Ask for help
If the wife wants the husband to help her with household chores, then do not order the husband for this. Ask them for help, not pressure them to do things. When you seek cooperation from your husband for some work, he also supports you, but if you ask him to work by fighting or forcefully, then he will not help you with household chores as a responsibility.
Don't scold others in front of others
You can speak rightly to your husband for helping him but don't scold him in front of other family members or children for getting him to work. For example, if you want her to take care of the kids for a while, don't say anything to her in front of the kids, but in private explain to her what she can do to help.
Ask to do small tasks
To get help from your husband, first, ask him to do small things. Do not ask them to do any such work in the house, which they cannot do. Make the husband do the work of which he is capable. Don't expect too many tasks. Nor ask them to do as much work as you do.
