Raksha Bandhan is being celebrated on 19th August. Raksha Bandhan, one of the major festivals of Hinduism, is a day dedicated to the relationship between brother and sister. On this occasion, the sister ties a Rakhi on her brother's wrist which is a Raksha Sutra. It is a symbol of protecting the brother and wishing him a long life. At the same time, the brother also promises to protect his sister throughout his life.
On this occasion, brothers also give gifts to their sisters. No matter how happy the sister becomes after getting the gifts, the responsibility of the brother does not end there. Give them such a gift that will maintain the progress, security, and confidence of the sister throughout her life.
Everyone will give gifts, but this Raksha Bandhan, give such a gift to your sister that will not only change her thinking but also her way of life. Here are some such things that can be given to the sister as a gift on the occasion of Raksha Bandhan.
Let them go out alone
Even today, in Indian families, whether the sister is young or old, she is dependent on the men of the house. She needs her father and brother to go anywhere outside the house, from school to college. The sister also hopes that her brother will drop her before going out. Most girls get used to this and start lacking confidence when they go out alone.
Make your sister self-reliant. Let her go out alone and do her work so that her confidence increases and she does not feel scared of going out alone.
Make your sister strong
Girls are made mentally weak not only by outsiders but also by family members, in which they are told that 'one should not go out alone, one should not stay out late at night, girls are weak, etc.' Such things reduce their morale. The brother should make her physically strong so that such things of the world do not scare her. Therefore, pay attention to the fitness of the sister. Teach them self-defense skills. For this, send your sister to martial arts, boxing, or judo classes.
Let them make decisions
The decisions for the daughter of the house are taken by the parents or the brother. A girl depends on her family for every small and big decision related to her life, including which college she should study in, what she should study, whether she should work or not, or whom she should marry. The result of this is that the girl loses the ability to make decisions. Before marriage, she starts living her life according to the decisions of her parents and after marriage, according to the decisions of her husband and in-laws. But do not leave your sister's life to the decisions of others. Rather, support her to make her own decisions.
Know your sister's opinion. After knowing what she wants to do, let her make her own decisions.
Emotional support
Many times, such occasions come when the sister wants the support of her family. You should promise your sister and make her realize that whenever she needs you, you will always support her. Whether anyone supports your sister or not, you will always support her as much as possible. She can come to you any time in difficult times.
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