Every parent wants a better future for their child. For that, they leave no stone unturned in the upbringing of the child. Whether the child is small or big, his parents want to see him successful. But knowingly or unknowingly, parents commit some mistakes which hurt their children. It is not that they make these mistakes intentionally, these mistakes are a part of their upbringing. In such a situation, let us know what mistakes are made by parents knowingly or unknowingly.
Taunting children
Generally, parents taunt their children and the reason for taunting is mostly about the future of the children. In which parents think that taunting will improve their children, but research has revealed that taunting by parents reduces their self-confidence. In such a situation, children become afraid of their parents and feel hesitant to talk about anything.
Take out your anger on children
Many times, their mind gets confused while working for their parents due to work pressure due to some incident happening outside the house, or due to some other reasons, and their mind gets frustrated. In such a situation, many parents take out all their frustration on their children. Parents vent out their anger by scolding or hitting unnecessarily, let us tell you that this has a very bad effect on children. In such a situation, children become unnecessarily afraid of their parents, which remains a trauma of their childhood.
Involving children in conflicts
Many times it happens that parents start involving children in disputes at home. Whether these fights are between husband and wife or between any member of the family, it is very wrong to involve children in it, it hurts the children. In these fights, many wrong sentences and words are used which hurts the minds of children. It also happens that children themselves start taking part in these fights, which is wrong in itself. In such a situation, parents themselves should explain to their children and keep them away from these conflicts.
Teasing a child
It often happens that parents address their children by the wrong names. Many times they do this jokingly but these things have a deep negative impact on children. By doing this, children start becoming irritable, which hurts their minds. Therefore, address children by their names only and do not address them with names that reflect their shortcomings.
Comparing children to other children
It is very common for parents to compare their children with other children. It is not completely wrong to do this, if done healthily then it helps in the development of children. But often comparing parrots with other children turns into taunting the children, which hurts the children. Therefore, as much as possible, avoid comparing your children with other children because every child is different in itself and has its quality.
Do not make predictions about children
Many times it happens that when children make mistakes, parents start making wrong predictions about the children, their intention behind doing this is not to spoil the future of the children, but these small things hurt the children. Like you might have often heard parents saying, 'You couldn't do this small task, what will you be able to do in the future'. Saying like this reduces the self-confidence of children which hurts the children making decisions for their future.
(PC: Freepik)
