Parents make mistakes : Every parent wants a better future for their child. For that, they leave no stone unturned in the upbringing of the child. Whether the child is small or big, his parents want to see him successful. But knowingly or unknowingly, parents commit some mistakes which have a negative impact on their children. It is not that they make these mistakes intentionally, these mistakes are a part of their upbringing. In such a situation, let us know what mistakes are made by parents knowingly or unknowingly.
Taunting children
Generally, parents taunt their children and the reason for taunting is mostly about the future of the children. In which parents think that taunting will improve their children, but a research has revealed that taunting by parents reduces their self-confidence. In such a situation, children become afraid of their own parents and feel hesitant in talking about anything.
Venting one's anger on children:
Many times, their mind gets confused while doing their parents' work or due to work pressure or due to some incident happening outside the house or due to some other reasons, their mind gets frustrated. In such a situation, many parents take out all their frustration on their children. Parents vent out their anger by scolding or hitting unnecessarily, let us tell you that this has a very bad effect on children. In such a situation, children become unnecessarily afraid of their parents, which remains a trauma of their childhood.
Involvement of children in mutual disputes:
Many times it happens that parents start involving children in disputes at home. Whether these fights are between husband and wife or between any member of the family, it is very wrong to involve children in it, it has a negative impact on the children. In these fights, many wrong sentences and words are used which has a negative impact on the minds of children. It also happens that children themselves start taking part in these fights, which is wrong in itself. In such a situation, parents themselves should explain to their children and keep them away from these conflicts.
Teasing a child:
It often happens that parents address their children by wrong names. Many times they do this jokingly but these things have a deep negative impact on children. By doing this, children start becoming irritable, which has a negative impact on their mind. Therefore, address children by their names only and do not address them with names which reflect their shortcomings.
It is very common in the nature of parents to compare their children with other children . It is not completely wrong to do this, if done in a healthy manner then it helps in the development of children. But often comparing parrots with other children turns into taunting the children, which has a negative impact on the children. Therefore, as much as possible, avoid comparing your children with other children because every child is different in itself and has its own quality.
Do not make predictions about children.
Many times it happens that when children make mistakes, parents start making wrong predictions about the children. Their intention behind doing this is not to spoil the future of the children, but these small things affect the children. Gives wrong impression. Like you might have often heard parents saying, 'You couldn't do this small task, what will you be able to do in the future'. Saying like this reduces the self-confidence of children which has a negative impact on the children taking decisions for their future.
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