In India, married life is considered a relationship of births. Husband and wife complement each other. Both together form a family, in which due to love and affection, this relationship can be maintained sweetly throughout life. However, it is tied with a weak string, in which if some things are not taken care of, then bitterness starts coming into the relationship. In such a situation, disputes often start between husband and wife, and distance starts coming. In many cases, the relationship comes to the verge of breaking.
If you want to maintain a sweet relationship with your spouse, then avoid making some mistakes. This article is for married men. He often unknowingly says some such things to his wife, which can create a rift in their relationship. No matter how much you love your wife, there are 7 such things that no husband should say to his wife. The husband should not say these 7 things to his wife even by mistake.
Joking about wife's looks
Often husbands make fun of their wife's physical appearance. They jokingly call their wife fat, thin, or short in height. This is called body shaming which no woman likes, even if it is her husband who is doing it. When the husband talks about her body or beauty, the wife starts losing confidence and starts feeling distant from you.
Comparison with mother
There is no comparison to the food cooked by the mother but when a husband compares his wife's cooking skills with his mother, no wife likes it. A wife cooks food for her husband with a lot of love but when the husband says "No one can match his mother in cooking, or ask his mother how to make her favorite dish", it spoils the hard work of his wife. She starts feeling that no matter how delicious food she cooks, her husband will never like it.
Telling the wife to calm down
Often many such things happen in the in-laws' house that can make the wife sad. A wife expects that the husband will understand her pain and support her, but when the husband tells the wife to calm down or tells the wife that she is overreacting, the wife gets frustrated. She feels that her husband does not want to understand her pain. Due to this, she starts getting emotionally distant from her husband.
Adjust in the family.
Every husband expects his wife to adjust to his family. Try to adapt yourself even in adverse circumstances. A woman herself tries to adjust to her husband's family and maintain peace in the family. But when the husband says this to his wife, she does not like it. The husband is saying that learning to adjust to his family and situation makes the wife feel that the husband will never support her.
Insult of wife and her family
Respect is the most important in every relationship. The wife expects the husband to respect her. But when a husband does not respect his wife, bitterness starts creeping into the relationship. The biggest mistake men make is talking disrespectfully about their families in front of their wives. The wife can tolerate being abused, but if the wife does not respect her family, the respect for her husband and in-laws starts diminishing in the eyes of the woman.
You are like your parents.
In anger or jokingly, in any situation, the husband should not say to his wife that you are like your mother or like your parents. A woman can take this in a negative way that the husband is insulting her and her family. Therefore, think carefully before saying anything to your wife.
What do you do all day?
Often men feel that they work more than women. Especially women who take care of the house must be relaxing at home. Many times husbands ask their wives what do you do all day? With this question, they make the wife feel that the work and hard work of women has no value. Such things hurt your wife's self-esteem, whereas for a healthy relationship it is important that you appreciate your wife's work.
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