Parenting Tips: The child immediately quiets down, but tears well up in his eyes, and he's frightened. After returning home, you'll remember that moment again and again, wishing you could have been a little calmer.

Yelling at children in public

Parenting Tips: Sometimes you're incredibly tired and rushing to get things done, and your little one starts running around, picking things up, and dropping them. In that moment, you lose control and scold them harshly. The child immediately quiets down, but tears well up in their eyes, and they're frightened. After returning home, you're reminded of that moment again and again: "I could have been a little calmer, I could have explained it more lovingly, I could have made it a game." Every parent experiences these regrets at times. But these are the moments that leave a deep impact on children's minds. It's these small incidents in parenting that impact their personality, confidence, and emotional growth. Especially when it happens in a public place, the impact can be even more profound. So, let's explain today what the effects of yelling at children in public are.

How do children learn things?

Children learn most from observing their parents, not from books. If you speak calmly to people, they learn the same behaviour. If you yell in anger, they adopt the same approach. If you maintain patience during difficult times, they gradually learn to manage their emotions. Every action, whether small or large, is a live lesson for their child.

Why does scolding in public have more impact?

It's one thing to scold at home, but when you scold or embarrass a child in public, the impact is exponentially increased. At that moment, the child feels fear and insecurity, embarrassed, alone, and confused about what they did wrong. Children often become more cautious in public places, constantly worrying about whether their parents will get angry again.

What is the effect of yelling at children in public?

1. Loss of confidence – Due to repeated scolding, the child starts underestimating himself.

2. Angry or timid nature –  Some children become angry, while some become very quiet and timid.

3. Social Anxiety – Children start shying away from going in front of people.

5. Accepting bad behavior as normal – If the child sees shouting repeatedly, he feels that this is the right way.

What to do if you get angry?

When you get angry, it's crucial to control yourself first, as a sudden reaction can have a profound impact on your child. Taking a deep breath calms your mind and prevents you from reacting without thinking. Then, instead of scolding, try to explain things to your child lovingly, so they learn instead of fearing. If you make a mistake in anger, apologize, explain that you were tired, or reassure them that you love them.