How To Deal With Divorce: Divorce is a difficult and painful process, but it is not the end but the beginning of a new chapter. It can be challenging for Indian men, but if you are mentally strong and legally prepared, you can face all these problems.

It is not easy to get a divorce in India. The idea behind making the process difficult was to maintain unbreakable trust in a system like marriage, which is considered a bond for life. People should not take marriage lightly. However, in today's time, this system has become the enemy of many men's lives. Recently, after the suicide of a Bangalore techie due to divorce, many such cases have come to light in which the life of men ended in getting a divorce. 

Relationship coach Vishal Bhardwaj explains that after divorce, men have to face many types of problems, such as custody of children, alimony. Although there are many legal and personal solutions to deal with these problems, but sometimes this whole process lasts so long that mental health starts deteriorating. If you are also facing this, then here you can know the ways to deal with it-

Custody of children

In divorce cases in India, child custody is often in favor of the mother, as the court believes that young children live better with their mother. However, if a father can provide a safe and stable life for his children, he has every right to fight for the right to custody. For this, he will have to submit documents and evidence proving his financial and mental condition. With the help of an experienced lawyer, this process can be more effective.

How to avoid paying unfair alimony

The provision of alimony after divorce was earlier for the financial security of women, but now in many cases women demand alimony despite their income, which causes difficulty for men. In such a situation, it is important that a man presents proof of his ex-wife's financial status and income in the court, so that it can be proved that she is capable of taking care of herself. If possible, it is better to settle the matter by mutual consent.

Take the help of the court to meet the child

Many women do not allow their husbands to meet their children during divorce to emotionally torture them. Taking advantage of this, arbitrary alimony is also demanded. In such a situation, it is important that you put this matter before the judge in the court. After which the wife will have to arrange a meeting between you and the child even if she does not want to. 

Taking care of mental health

Men face mental stress and emotional trauma after divorce, but it is still difficult to talk about it openly in society. In such a situation, men should seek help from counseling and get support from family or friends.