Marriage in India is not just a relationship between husband and wife but is a relationship between families. After marriage, the girl has not one but two families. One where she was born and the other where her husband was born. After marriage, the girl has to live in her husband's family, where her parents are like mother-in-law and father-in-law. But calling mother-in-law and father-in-law as parents neither makes the daughter-in-law a daughter nor does the daughter-in-law become her parents. To strengthen the relationship with in-laws, a good bonding is necessary. Every girl hopes that just as she gets respect and love in her home, she should get the same in her in-laws too. But to fulfill this expectation, your first impression at your in-laws' house should be good. In such a situation, after marriage, a girl should keep some things in mind to impress her in-laws and get their love.
Look good
Beauty is the first impression. After the marriage, guests keep coming to see the newlywed bride. In such a situation, if you are well prepared then the guests will praise you. Mother-in-law and father-in-law will feel proud to hear the praise of their daughter-in-law. Dress as per the occasion. There is no need to dress up too much, but you can look good with light make-up and beautiful clothes. To impress in-laws and father-in-law, it is necessary to impress their friends and relatives.
Treat children lovingly
Young children of relatives often gather at weddings. Your brother-in-law or sister-in-law may have children in your in-laws' house. If there are children in the house, there will inevitably be mischief and noise. But you should not get irritated by their mischiefs. Remain calm and explain to the children lovingly. Everyone loves children. In such a situation, friendship with the children of the house will give you a place in the hearts of the elders also.
Efficient housewife
Whether you are employed or not, every mother-in-law wants the qualities of an efficient housewife in her daughter-in-law. If the daughter-in-law is skilled in kitchen work and especially knows how to cook delicious food, then her in-laws get impressed very quickly. If you cook good food and feed it to your in-laws or other in-laws, they can be impressed by you.
Friendship with in-laws
To become a good daughter-in-law, it is necessary to have support from your mother-in-law. Make friends with your mother-in-law. That is, take them out for a walk. Go shopping with them. Spend more quality time with your mother-in-law. Make them feel that you are on their team at their in-laws' house after your arrival. You can do this even if your sister-in-law or sister-in-law is present in your in-laws house. If you have a good bond with your in-laws, the rest of the family may also be satisfied with you.
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