After the marriage is fixed, the boy or girl becomes worried about their life partner and future. Especially when the couple does not know each other before, they have many questions in their mind for their future life partner. In the case of arranged marriage, it mostly happens that the couple starts knowing each other after the relationship is fixed. The time between engagement and marriage is a good opportunity for the partner to seek answers to the questions raised in his mind.
Will your fiancé make a good husband/wife? How difficult or easy can married life be with them? Know the answers to all these questions before marriage. To know whether the fiancee is good or not, you will have to spend some time with them. Their behavior and lifestyle can be understood only by giving time to each other. If you are also going to get married, then you can adopt some methods to find out whether the fiance will prove to be good after marriage or not.
Know the likes and dislikes of the fiance
To spend a whole life with a stranger, you must know their likes and dislikes. Also, knowing whether there is some similarity in your likes, you can find out how easy or difficult it is going to be to get married to your fiancee. If the likes of both of you match to some extent, then living together can be easy. On the other hand, if there is some contradiction between your dislikes, then talk about it beforehand. For example, if you are fond of eating non-veg and your fiancee is a vegetarian, then find out how much this will affect your choice after marriage.
Know the thinking and behavior of the fiancee
The similarity of views of the fiancee and you will make life easier. Too much contradiction in views can become a cause of dispute after marriage. Apart from this, find out how their behavior is towards you, your family, your own family, and the people around you. Is the partner too angry? Does he speak well to the people around him, does the fiancee respect you? Knowing this, you will be able to easily decide whether your partner can prove to be good after marriage or not.
Fiance's plans for the future
After marriage, the future of both the boy and the girl get linked to each other. Your life also depends on your partner's plans. Plans may also include your fiancee's career and his thoughts about your career. After marriage, the partner wants to live with the family or separate, and know about family planning.
Is the fiancee happy in the marriage?
Before marriage, ask the most important question from the fiance whether he is happy with this marriage. Is he getting married of his own free will? And what are his thoughts about marriage, know this. In an arranged marriage, sometimes the partners are not able to openly express their choice and desire regarding the marriage. So know their opinion about their marriage.
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