If you hesitate to share things with your partner because he makes fun of you, then this can be a sign of a red flag partner. You must have heard words like red flag or green flag from your friends. After you or any of your friends break up, you must have heard from his mouth that you did not see the red flag earlier? A red flag has always been a sign of danger, but in recent times it has also started being used to tell about the dangers of the relationship.
Similarly, a green flag in a relationship is a kind of positive sign. It shows a strong foundation in the relationship. A green flag means that the partner is right for you and respects you. It is also important for you to know what red and green flags are in a relationship and how they can be identified.
Signs of danger
No one should try to dominate their partner in a relationship. You are two people in a relationship, so both should listen to each other and make decisions only after understanding. But if someone is trying to dominate the other, then it is wrong.
There is a relationship between you two, but whenever you need emotional support, your partner is not with you. He remains absent on some pretext or the other and despite you feeling it, if he does this again and again, then this is the most important sign of a red flag in a relationship.
Similarly, making fun of your profession or things, demeaning you again and again, or calling you lucky because he is with you, all this is also very wrong. So do not ignore these too.
At the same time, convincing you for every adjustment, but never adjusting yourself. Even if a date has to be fixed for meeting, then he will do it, not you and even if you do this, he will start getting angry at you, such behavior is also counted as a red flag.
Signs of happiness
In a relationship, it is also important to have emotional intimacy along with physical intimacy, which makes your relationship better. If you and your partner share your feelings openly, then you are living a good relationship.
In a good and strong relationship, you are not shy to apologize to each other and neither do you think too much. If your partner is also like this, then you are in a green flag relationship.
Apart from this, if the partner respects your work and decisions, stands in your favor in front of other people, feels safe with him, and accepts you as you are, then all these are also signs of a green flag.
If you are living in a good relationship, then the partner will never be afraid or think about talking to you about the future. A good partner will always talk to you about his future plans.
Identification is important
Dr. Bharti Singh, a Psychology Consultant in the Health Department, of the Uttar Pradesh Government, says, it is very important to identify green flags and red flag in any relationship. With these signs, you can decide whether your relationship is good or not. It is not necessary that the person you love loves you as much. In many relationships, people come just for the sake of name and pretend to love. Many times these people give red flags in the relationship, after which their partner loses faith in any relationship.
Loving each other, respecting each other as well as each other's close ones, their family members, always supporting your partner, handling them when something goes wrong, all these things are signs of green flags. If you are seeing signs of red flags in your partner, then identify them in time.
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