Every parent wants their child to always be ahead in studies or any kind of activity and participate in it enthusiastically. But this does not mean that pressure should be put on them to always be at the forefront. However, you can motivate children so that they perform better. In such a situation, it matters a lot what you are talking to your children or telling them. This has a deep impact on the mental health of the child. In such a situation, today we are going to tell you about some things that you should say to your children every day. These things provide motivation to children and help them handle difficult situations well. Let us know about these things...
I love you
“I love you” is a magical word that you should say to your children every day. By saying this, children will always feel wanted. This will sink into their mind that you are ready for them in every situation. Also, saying I love you to your children every day will inculcate in their minds that you do much more than them. Some children have this notion in their minds that their parents do not love them, this notion is quite wrong. In such a situation, definitely say I love you to the children every day.
I am always with you
As children grow older, they often start feeling lonely. In such a situation, when you tell them in difficult times that you are with them at every step, they will get the courage and inspiration to move forward.
You are very good
Instead of this, you can use any word like you are good at mathematics, you are very hardworking, you are a very fast learner. Please note that do not use negative words under any circumstances. Hearing positive words every day brings about similar changes in the child's inner self.
Ask children for opinion
Parents often believe that children do not have experience. So they get everything wrong. If you also believe this, then it can have a bad effect on your child. Therefore, before taking any decision in front of children, definitely ask their opinion. By doing this children will realize their importance.
You can
To boost your child's confidence and help him achieve his goals, keep saying to him from time to time, 'You can do this'. When the child's mind becomes sad after some failure, then give him courage and tell him that nothing is impossible for him.
Sorry and thank you
Words like sorry and thank you are important not only for adults but also for children. They are learning just by watching you. When you say sorry, children learn that they should apologize for their mistakes and move on. Similarly, by saying thank you for doing work, you are teaching good values to the child, which will be useful in his life.
I am proud of you
Whether your child does big or small work, always tell him that you are proud of him. Even if he fails in some work, then think that at least he has made an honest attempt to do that work. These words spoken by you lovingly will stop him from getting distracted by his failures.
What happened after that
Sometimes you do not take interest in what your children say, which has a huge impact on your children. In such situations, children become afraid of saying anything further. Therefore, whenever your child comes to talk to you, definitely ask him what happened next. By doing this they will feel that you are taking interest in what they have to say.
