Parenting New Rules: If there are children, they will do mischief, they should never be interrupted for eating and drinking, it makes them blind, no matter what the school is like, if the child has the desire to study, he will study at any time...These are some of the popular phrases that we have been hearing since childhood, but till yesterday the things which were considered to be the firm rule of parenting have now been rejected outright. Instead, preference is now being given to new ways of raising children. Know about some such new rules...
Limit of affection
In the past, people were extra pampering with small children. For example, if the child falls while learning to walk, the mother used to hit the ground to pacify the crying child, but today's parents understand that it is natural for the child to fall while learning to walk. In such a situation, repeatedly hitting the ground in front of him will develop a sense of revenge in the child's mind and will also weaken his confidence. So it would be better to give him a chance to learn from his own mistakes.
No overeating
Earlier people used to believe that children should not be interrupted in the matter of food. For the good physical development of children, they should be given plenty of food, but now it is not so. Today's parents know which things can harm the health of children. They are also aware of the problem of obesity arising due to overeating. That's why now mothers prefer to give a proper and balanced diet to their children.
Habit of questioning
Earlier, the children who silently obeyed the elders by bowing their heads were considered good. Children asking questions or arguing were considered undisciplined, but this is no longer the case. Today's parents have started to understand that there will be questions in the mind of only that child who has the ability to think and understand logically on any subject.
The study is not enough
If you read and write, you will become a Nawab, if you play and jump, you will become bad. It is outdated in today's world. The saying has been proved completely wrong. Earlier children were motivated only to study, but today's parents understand very well that now only studies will not work. For the balanced development of personality, children will also have to be ahead in extra activities like sports, music, dance, and painting.
Importance of personal space
There was a time when it was considered necessary to keep a close watch on the activities of children, especially teenagers, but today parents are a little liberal in this matter. They know that if they are more strict, the children will start hiding their things from them. That's why today's parents favor giving some freedom and personal space to their children and it is not that they are allowing the children to do whatever they want. He is also monitoring them but in such a way that they do not feel any confusion.
Generosity towards daughters
Earlier daughters were brought up in such a way that they become soft, calm and tolerant. That's why they were encouraged to play with kitchen sets and dolls from the very beginning. Parents used to keep girls away from outdoor games like cricket, hockey and volleyball. They felt that such sports were made for boys only. But today's parents believe in making their daughters as rough and tough as their sons. They get them trained in Judo-Karate for self-defense. Now girls are also actively participating in various outdoor activities.
Preaching is useless
Earlier, on seeing the children, parents used to say to them that nowadays you do not pay any attention to studies, why do not you keep your books properly, you always make mistakes in haste. Children get bored with such things very quickly and they don't even follow them. Now parents have understood this very well that children get bored by listening to the same type of sermons again and again, so repeating the same things in front of them will not be of any use.
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