We meet many types of people in life. Some people bring happiness in our lives, while some people give us trouble. But many times we get associated with such people who do not give us happiness, but give us troubles. Living with them fills our lives with negativity. Such people are called toxic. The best solution is to avoid toxic relationships. If you are associated with a toxic person, try to remove him from your life.
Motivational speaker Jaya Kishori has given some tips to deal with such people on her YouTube channel. If there is someone in your life who troubles you, then with these tips you can improve your relationship.
Talk directly:
Toxic people often don't realize how their words or behavior affect others. Therefore, it is important to talk with them directly. Tell them how their words or behavior make you feel. If they care about you, they will try to improve their words or behavior.
Control Anger
When you are talking to someone who makes you feel bad, you must control your anger. Even if the person is wrong, you should still talk to him calmly and respectfully. If he tries to provoke you, you should remember that you are sitting together to sort things out, not to quarrel. Otherwise, things may get worse.
Understand their side also.
Sometimes a person's circumstances can also be responsible for wrong words or behavior. Therefore, before reaching any decision, try to understand the other person. Before making any decision regarding your relationship with that person, pay attention to how much truth and lies he is telling in his defense.
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