Lying is no less than an art. Telling a lie requires more intelligence than telling the truth. Therefore, with practice, people hone the art of lying to such a level that no common man is able to catch their truth. But it is important to remember that every thief makes some mistake while stealing. To catch it, it is necessary to be alert and stop thinking based on old concepts.
According to Kevin Colwell, psychology professor at Connecticut University, if you want to know the truth from someone, then talk to them without any preconceptions. The flow of emotions gives indications of liars. By talking to them in a natural manner, you can see changes in their behaviour. In this article we are giving you information about some such changes.
Some signs of liars-
Chronological matters
People who lie tell their stories sequentially. The beginning and end of the story is decided in advance. Whereas people who speak the truth talk naturally. They may also add new facts while describing the same event. Whereas liars repeat the same things which they had said earlier.
Don't avert your eyes
Contrary to popular belief, people who lie are looking at you. They want to know whether you trust them or not. This is often done by those people who lie with complete planning.
Shocking language
When lying, people use relatively better and more sophisticated language. They may use words that you may have never heard from them before. Avoid using pronouns
If someone does not use pronouns like 'I' or 'my' while describing an event, be careful. They may be hiding the truth. Jim Clement, a former FBI agent, says that suppose a woman asks her husband what he is doing? The husband's reply came - had gone to the park, had lunch. He did not use 'I' in his sentence. Actually, he has eaten food with someone else, so now he is afraid that instead of 'I', 'we' might come out of his tongue.
Answer questions with questions
People who lie hide important facts or pretend to forget. In such a situation, he will never give direct answers to your questions. They often answer your questions with other questions. You cannot easily get a one-word answer from people who lie.