Conflicts are common among married couples. If this relationship, which is sometimes love and sometimes quarrels, is maintained with mutual understanding, then the relationship remains strong, but when ego comes in between the relationship, many types of problems start arising. Many times such a rift comes in the relationship that the relationship comes on the verge of breaking. Therefore, it is important that whenever any conflict or misunderstanding arises between the couple, efforts should be made to resolve it as quickly as possible. Here is some advice for married couples which can be useful in removing the sourness in the relationship.
Conversation is very important.
Often people advise that any fight should be resolved by sitting peacefully and talking to each other. If you do not want to encourage a fight, then definitely talk to your partner. No matter how big a dispute or fight happens between you, do not stop talking to each other, rather sit and talk to each other and try to resolve the fight as soon as possible. Communication can strengthen any weakening relationship. Communication removes misunderstandings and also reveals what your partner did not like about you.
It is important to give time to each other.
Relationships start weakening when people stop giving time to their partner. Spending time with each other is very important for a strong relationship. Do not express your conflict and resentment in such a way that you reduce the time you give to your partner. Rather, try to take some time from your busy schedule and sit and talk. Giving time to your partner strengthens the relationship. Try to go out with your partner once a week.
Accept the mistake
Usually, it happens that when two people fight, they start counting each other's mistakes. During this time, people also say some such things to their partner, which hurts them. In anger, they are unable to see their mistake and try to put all the blame on others. But, doing this is not right at all. You think that it is your partner's mistake but he may be seeing your mistakes. Avoid finding each other's mistakes or blaming each other in a dispute. To handle the relationship, you can take the initiative yourself and say sorry to him. A small sorry from you can calm your partner's anger and reduce the discord in the relationship.
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