After a few years of marriage, if the husband's interest in you starts decreasing, then understand that the time has come to pay attention to these things.

Seeing the hanging face of her sister-in-law, Abhilasha, her sister-in-law asked, "Is there any problem with Pawan?" Abhilasha did not say anything. But the experienced sister-in-law scratched a little, her eyelids got wet. Abhilasha could not stop herself. Then he told what the sister-in-law had suspected. Abhilasha said, "It's been only 2 years since marriage... Pawan doesn't seem to have any interest in me... Whenever he has a desire, he settles everything mechanically and goes to sleep... No romance, no laughter."

It is a common complaint of wives that for 2-3 years of marriage, husbands keep on putting strings on them, but later they stop taking interest in them. In such a situation, wives start feeling neglected.

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This complaint of wives has also been confirmed in the study done on hundreds of couples. The results of the study show that after the honeymoon phase, which according to this study is of 3 years and 6 months, both husband and wife stop trying to woo each other. Both leave extra efforts to look attractive and take care of each other. Love is considered a normal thing. On one hand, wives complain that husbands do not love them as before and do not take much interest in sex with them, on the other hand, husbands also complain about the same.

They believe that wives also take great care for a year or so after marriage, remain soft-spoken, pay a lot of attention to their grooming and dress, indulge in teasing and flirtatious acts, but later wear the cloak of seriousness. Puffs up in conversation. All the time she makes excuses for tiredness, illness, and busyness. She hesitates to cooperate even in sex. This complaint of husbands cannot be taken lightly. Wives like Abhilasha have to understand why always husbands should take interest in a wife. Why should the husband be the one to coax or initiate sex? Why not expect husband and wife to be active?

If you want to maintain the same heat in your sexual relationship, then pay attention to these tips:

Pamper Yourself:

Do you remember earlier how much you used to take care of your eyebrows, nails, lips, underarms, back, skin, hair, and face? Every morning she used to spend so much time selecting clothes before getting dressed and now she green saree with a red blouse, a crust on her lips, the smell of sweat from her underarms, and no time to remove hair from the bikini area.

Just think and see, is it all the husband's fault that the fat accumulated on the waist, the stomach has become belly? No? Then what is the delay? Pedicure, Manicure, Spa, Facial When will all these be useful? Reshape yourself with gym, exercise, etc., laugh, smile, and then see amazing.

A lingerie makeover is necessary:

Lack of attraction is the biggest reason for boredom in sex life. Many wives even stop wearing panties after 2-4 years of marriage. Even if she wears something, it is worn out, discolored, or dirty, seeing which one might feel nauseous.

The thinking of such wives is that who will see it. Why do they forget that they have to impress the one whom they want to show? When the husband who is drenched in romance moves on with you and sees such a condition of the undergarments, then believe me half of his romance vanishes. It would be better to spend some money and get some sexy lingerie. You will automatically understand what difference this makeover makes.

Give romance a chance:

Same bedroom every day, same environment… Sex also starts getting boring due to this monotony. Go for an outing with your husband 1-2 times a year. If it is not possible to go out due to business busyness or children's education etc., then go for weekend outings in the city itself. Go for a walk in the park, watch a movie in a multiplex or go window shopping in a shopping mall, then be a little flirty. Chatting with your husband, teasing, and making romantic gestures will stimulate the husband as well as indicate your invitation. Then see how the husband will be desperate to come into your arms after losing control over himself.

Tickle with Gadgets:

Nowadays mobile phones or tabs are proving to be of great use. Try taking advantage of these sometime. Secretly take a picture of the husband lying on the bed in a particular pose or carefree manner. Then show at night. Send romantic SMS or WhatsApp post if the husband is out of the home. With these tickling antics of yours, the husband will be distraught to romance you. To give a magical touch to the moments of romance, put some sexy or romantic song in the bedroom in a slow voice and then get lost in each other.