Nobody likes interference, especially from relatives, but it cannot be denied openly. In such a situation, you will have to adopt some methods to deal with this situation. Interference from relatives sometimes becomes a problem for you, but you do not want to say anything wrong or hurtful, because there is a fear of spoiling the relationship. In such a situation, you will have to set some limits, so that you can maintain the sweetness of the relationship. But you must handle it wisely.
Some limits
Speak clearly, stay happy! Elders have always been saying this, which is also true to a large extent. Therefore, tell your relatives clearly what kind of behavior you accept and what kind you do not. Tell these limits firmly and clearly. If they do not respect your limits, then make them realize it, like reducing meeting them or not sharing personal information with them.
Peace, not anger
When relatives interfere in your life beyond limits, act with peace, not anger. It is natural to feel angry or irritated, but doing so can worsen the situation. So take a deep breath and try to stay calm.
Their point of view
Try to understand why your relatives are behaving like this. It could be that they are worried about you or trying to help you. However, it is also possible that they are doing this with wrong intentions. But you should accept their feelings, even if you do not agree with their actions.
Do not take it to heart
When you know that some of your relatives have the nature to interfere or give their opinion in every matter or work, then you should have a big heart and not take their words to heart. Listen to their words with one ear and let them out from the other. Do only what you want to do. By doing this, they will know that you do not like their nature.
A certain distance
If a relative interferes with your things even when there is no problem or demand for advice, then it can be a sign that you should not share any information about your relationship with them at all. If a relative is ready to give unsolicited advice despite your best efforts, then it would be wise to go to him only when you need his opinion on a particular matter, otherwise, keep a distance from him.
Listen to what the heart says
Senior psychologist Dr. S. Dhananjay says, that both relationships and relatives have their importance in life, but if a relative advises without asking, then there is no harm in listening to it. It depends on your discretion to accept it or not. There is a saying that listen to everyone and do your own. Therefore, take any decision at your discretion. At the same time, if you are getting upset due to interference, then tell the relative openly whatever his opinion may be, but what do you think on this issue? You should tell him that I feel disappointed when he questions my decisions. This will help him understand how his words and actions affect you.
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