To make the child sensible and cultured, the parents will have to bring these changes in their behavior as well.
Many times it happens that you meet the child of your friend or relative for the first time. No one has told you that this is so-and-so's child, but on seeing his habits and conduct you understand that he is so-and-so's child. The truth is that the child has a complete impression of his parents. A glimpse of his parents is visible in his attitude toward life. Therefore, if you want your child to become ideal, then for this you also have to become ideal. It means that you have to treat your child in the same way as you expect from the child.
According to Relationship Counselor Dr. Nisha Khanna, the relationship between parents and children is very sensitive. A slight lapse in this is enough to create a rift in the relationship between the two. Your restrained and sensible behavior affects the development of your child. If you have positive thoughts about life, then your child will also be like that, but if you have a habit of criticizing everything and if you unnecessarily get involved with your partner or any family member, If yes, then surely your child will also be quarrelsome. The truth is that the child sees his ideal only in his parents. If it is a boy, he wants to be like his father, and the qualities of his mother automatically come in the girl. That's why the kind of behavior you want from your child, you also have to maintain the same atmosphere at home, you have to behave in the same way with your child and other people.
1. Leaving the habit of quarreling
If you have the habit of making a mole out of even the smallest thing, then it is better to leave this habit after becoming a parent. Leaving the habit of quarreling with your spouse and other family members on trivial matters, keep a sense of love and friendship in mutual relations so that your child also learns to behave restrained in society and the family.
2. I'm right
Generally, many parents have this habit that they think that what they are doing is right. If your thinking is also like this, then change it, because the truth is that no person is perfect. Everyone has some or the other deficiency. If you cannot accept your mistake, then believe me your child will also try to prove his mistake right. With this kind of thinking, he will not be able to learn to give importance to the words of others, which will not be in his interest in the long run.
3. My parents didn't give me that much leeway
Many parents compare themselves with their children. They have a habit of judging everything by the behavior of their parents towards them. If your parents did not give you the freedom to do any work, it does not mean that you should also not give space to your child. Now the earlier era is no more, in which children used to believe all the right and wrong things of their parents. To build a proper relationship with your child, you must treat him like a friend from time to time. Be disciplined, but at the same time give him the freedom to think and express his feelings.
4. Teach children the lesson of quality love
Generally, one of the main reasons for disputes between husband and wife is the wife becoming indifferent towards her husband after the birth of a child. Many parents think that after becoming parents, the love between them has ended. Now they do not need to go somewhere with each other or show love to each other. This type of thinking is wrong. The truth is that after becoming parents, your bonding becomes deeper. You need to keep showing your love to each other so that your child learns from you how to love your spouse, how to take care of his needs, and how to respect him. In this way, when your child will step into your role after growing up, he will be able to live his life in a better way by adjusting to the relationship.
5. Respect each other
To run the relationship between husband and wife smoothly, they must take care of each other's feelings and respect each other. No matter how angry you are, do not talk to your spouse in a loud voice and abusive language in front of your child, because the way you behave, your child also behaves in the same way. If you both respect each other and take care of each other's feelings, then the same thinking will develop in the child.
